"[W]hen I'm hanging out with a woman, that's all I'm doing is hanging out, talking, listening. I'm not sitting there thinking about how to get in bed with her. And this completely confuses them because they're saying 'Wait a minute. I'm so much better looking than this guy. Isn't he attracted to me?' The basic principle: We pursue that which retreats from us."
- from the movie The Tao of Steve